I am a feminist struggling with my views on , your opions may help?

I would say (unless it was stuff or the guy is clearly treating the girl like ****) ographic videos are often pretty equal-opportunity exploitation. Try to find the most natural stuff you can (I know it's needle in a haystack sometimes) but I feel a lot better about purchasing when the male and the female in the shoot are clearly on the same page and no one is acting abusive or superior to anyone else.